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"When children feel ashamed for not being good or doing what's right, or letting their
parents down, they come to feel flawed, inferior, no good, and not worth loving. They
learn to think less of themselves and feel no one could love them. And if their parents
don't love them, they need someone or something to make them feel good about themselves.
And this is the root of addictive behaviors: They're going to do whatever they need to do
to find self-respect and a feeling of connectedness of belonging. Or they'll do whatever
necessary to numb or repress their feelings of low self-worth and the shame and pain of
feeling unloved. This fear of rejection and not being loved underlies most illness."
- Dean Shrock, Ph.D.
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